The popularity and convenience of online matchmaking induce many to seek support of Bangladeshi matrimonial services online. I have many friends who have found their soul mates online without much search and effort. But there are also many who could not succeed in having a great online match making and instead settled for their parents’ choice. On interacting with friends from both categories, I found that innate social conservatism, failure to have an effective profile online, lack of proper communication, and inability to understand the basics of online matchmaking procedure are primary reasons for disappointment or lengthy wait to receive response from other Bangladeshi matrimonial profiles online.
Tips for Online Profile Making
As most of the prospective bride and grooms are unaware of the traditional needs of the people looking for Bangladeshi marriages, their online profiles fail to generate adequate interest. Similarly, I have seen parents reluctantly seeking the help of Bangladeshi matrimonial services and mostly ignorant of the requirements for effective online matchmaking. An ideal profile is the first step toward successful online matchmaking. The following are few tips that help in making a good matrimonial profile online.
- Your profile online must respect the social norms and culture of Bangladeshi society.
- You should be frank about your choice, but words needs to be polite, polished, formal, devoid of loose talk, and sufficient to show respect for all.
- Ensure that the profile picture is both charming and appealing.
- Put exhaustive information on your online profile and highlight the family details, date of birth, job, education, and address.
- Politely mention the likes and dislikes and qualities of your ideal partner.
Tips for Communication Online
A good profile can attract prospective brides and grooms, but to advance further, contact and communication are vital. It is the most vital step in Bangladeshi matchmaking online. At the initial stage, the communication must be done through the medium provided by the Bangladeshi matrimonial services online. Almost all online matrimonial service providers offer personalized mail and chat services. Never disclose your communication details to any stranger. Give your phone number and postal address only after you are convinced of the genuine interest from the other aside. Also do not try to remain shy or refuse to answer any question once you are sure of credibility of the contacting side. Any refusal to answer may create suspicion.
Also make it a point to create a positive impression during the conversation online or on phone. Keep in mind that in most cases it is the parents, brothers, or other family members of the bride who begin the talks. So be respectful toward family and social values while communicating. Politely refuse contacts from those with whom you are not interested.
Follow Up
Face-to-face meetings or home visits should follow once you are convinced through online communication that the match is the most suitable for you. However, before committing your words, make it sue through contacts and investigation that the personal and professional claims by the person are true. Bangladeshi marriage is considered infallible. Therefore, make adequate findings about the other side and make sure that your trust is backed by evidence. In case you find that the other side is making bogus claims, you can refuse to entertain them and inform the online Bangladeshi matrimonial services for action.
